Stages in life

Wah.. friends around you are dropping red bombs at ur door steps. I had one end of last year, 1 tis coming sat and another 1 at 10 feb..

Life is such tat there is 4 stages

1) When young, keep receiving birthday invitations till 21 years;

2) early 20s, start receiving wedding invitations;

3) Late 20s to early 30s, keep baby 1st month invitations;

4) the last will be getting news of friends passing on, and dunno when will it be your turn.

As you age, if lucky will get to pass all 4 stages and experience the growing up of friends and turning old with them. You will not know wat is in store for you till the end of the path, so life is always full of surprises rite

Winter

The winter tis yr is sooo much colder than last yr.. rainy days are getting longer and its always heavy downpour, causing lot of places to flood pretty bad.. esp Malaysia.. haha ... flood? water level almost as tall as the traffic lights? it going to take quite a long time for the water to go down i think.. The downpours are horrible- super heavy and veri sudden, dun give chance to take cover and u will be wet... haha ...

The wind yesterday was super strong, the trees are swaying vigorously. People carry unbrellas have a hard time holding on to it, i think if darling is walking on the road, she will have a hard time standing straight cos she is soooo light.. goodness...

Its soooo cold at nite tat no fan or air con is needed, i onli need my comforter.. wrapping mi from head to toe.. had hard time getting up every morn cos the sky is always so dark and cool.. tat it doesnt seem like morn.. hehe...

Nite in Paragon

hehe ... got out of the house and try to be sweet to grandma today, went to her plawce to bring her for 'Scholl' shopping, she needs a pair of new slippers. Got to her place and it was raining super heavily.. need to wait for the rain to stop before getting her out of the house... hahha .. so by the time we left her place its was already 5 plus and my ma wants to go eat .. so we decided to go metro at Paragon and went to Crystral Jade at the 5th floor.

The decor is veri cosy and posh... Dark drown and red.. veri classy too... heheh.. when we got in the place was quiet and super cold... was freezing inside.. need the hot tea..

Chinese New YEar is here ...

Wow... Time really files its seems like onli afew months back when i celebrated the CNY year of a dog, In another 1 month's time it will be the year of the PIG.. hahha . I guess tat will be everyone's favourite year.. heheh ... Its time tospring clean the house, shop for new clothes for the year and feast on goodies... yummi... Pineapple tarts, Bak Kwa, shrimp rolls, cuttlefish, sweets and chocolates... hmmm .. realise tat all the festives is about eating and feasting .... there will be 1 goodie for every festive... heheh ... Festives is the time to get FAT ... heheh ....

I had some shopping and din find any nice clothes... hmmm.. oh no wat should i wear tis year ... jeans, skirt, red top ?? hahah ....

Yuppi...

Finally i am able to get out of the misery with no sense of guilt.. hahaha... have waited for this opportunity for a long long time already and finally its paid off... hehhe.... Its time for mi to move on and see the world... i need to get out and c new stuff b4 i become a tortoise in the shell.. heheh...

Yuppi .. yuppi... Free as a bird... YahoO...!!!!

Is this life????

*Life is such tat no matter wat you do, people will not appreciate*
*Life is such tat no matter wat u say, people will not listen*
*Life is such tat no matter how nice u are, people will not feel it*

~Dun you feel tat sometimes you feel so demoralise,~
~find tat people around suddenly dun noe u at all.~
~And tat u dun mean a thing to them.. ~

*Tat people onli live for themselves*
*and not care a world about people around them.*

How can we manager to survive in such a place???

My New Member

hehe... Finally got my present from sweetie... We actually said not to get any present tis year but i still found something for her so she got no choice, need to find mi one.. hahah ...

It was not something expensive i hope but something i love... its... a little rabbit booster.. hehhe.... it comes in a red wrapper bag wif a veri nice label wif pink ribbon and tag from mother garden.. the packing is veri sweet...she rem tat i love the soft material, not furry type... heheh .... its sooo soft to touch and u wun wan to let it go.. Its an new additional to my soft toy family... Can't wait to hug it to bed tonite.... Thanks Sweetie.. Mauckz.. Mauckz!!!

Post Christmas Shopping

Yahoo... Finally mi and sweetie complete our mission.. hahah.. its sooo hard getting presents, goodness... we actually did post christmas shopping..so happy... it like suddenly u have mood and motivation to shop and everything u c is nice.. hahah... but at the end of the day u still dunno wat to buy cos instead of buying presents, u r shopping for ur own.. haha... i got a top and 2 bags yest.. think my ma will flip cos she juz clear my cupboard.. then i buy again.. hahah ... but too bad.. I am a gal.. never is enough.. hahah ...

New Year's Day

Woke up at abt 10 plus... but still feel tired.. haha ... we had to check out today so we got up to do some packing.. jie fu sis were going home and the amount of stuff they bring is like.. WOW!!! .. r we shifting house ... its a lot.. haha.. after they left, mi, er jie, kat jie, sweetie had our lunch there (last nite leftovers and instant mee) and clean up to leave for home.. the whole car was filled wif stuff.. gown, flowers, bags, presents, radio, dvd player,blah... blah...

we arrange to have dinner that nite, so by the time i got home no time to rest have to bath and go out but lucky er jie need to send her parents to pray so i get to sleep for half and hour.. i was sooo tired that i suddenly jolt up with an empty mind, dunno wat to do first.. juz feel like falling back onto the bed.. no choice have to get up and shower.. haha... had to take cold shower to wake my sleeping brains up.. hehe ... then er jie fetch us to go dinner at Space @ my humble house at Esplande, kat jie need to return her gown so we send her to suntec and the stupid shop was close and need to wait for them to open the shop, so we were going rounds downstairs.. haha ...

Finally we made our way to Esplande.. haha.. got there at 8.45pm.. Ah G, Jie fu and Roy is there already.. waiting for us ... hahha.. and christer is on her way here.. hahha ... Its fusion food, the plate and portion is huge.. the taste is pretty good at the end of the dinner, my plate still seem untouch.. hahah ... and the dessert is wonderful.. veri nice.. yummi... we had gui ling guo, coconut ice-cream wif chocolate and strawberries, Latte ice cream wif cream of Avocado, blueberry mosses with cream of pumkin... its taste pretty good despite the weird combination.. hahha...

After the heavy dinner and desserts, we made out way to Dream Bar... to find ying. She tot we will be wif Dare .. of cos not lar .. hahah .. or else she needs to be a good gal lioa .. we open a bottle of chivas and sing, play 5,10, 007, heart attack.. and blah blah.... we were veri noisy as usual lar.. hahah ... the opposite table keep eyeing on us.. hahah ... and we manage to clear the bottle wif none of us drunk..execpt Christer.. hahah ..

Got home at abt 4 plus.. and dreamland i went.. hahha.. too tired already... Its rest day tomolo..

New Year's Eve

hehe.. Had a veri quiet and guai new year's eve.. no smoke, no drinks and no clubbing.. hahha.. mi and sweetie actually planned to go partying at DBL O but we had super late nite on sat.. slept at abt 5 plus then got woke up at abt 9 plus but kat jie's in-law... with the kida all running all over the place..and screaming.. argh.. sooo tired.. no choice have to get up lar, then stonned the whole morn.. then help Kat jie's mom to prepare lunch.. haha... her mom cooked pig trotter's, cod fish, veg, lotus root soup, and fried chicken in seaweed... she is amazing.. heheh...

Sweetie brought Kat jie cousin to the beach, the 3 bao (Zu hao, Zu ming, Zu wei) veri cute and noti.. hahha .. zu mIng veri cute.. Kids these days are super clever.. the way they speak is sooo amazing.. hahah... u will hear shock ans.. hahha... i wanted to go home to change and rest cos really veri tired.. then they ask if we will be coming over in the nite for countdown.. hmmm.. i wan okie cos i dun think i can make it to party anyway.. and sicne the 3 bao is coming over later then okie lar.. we went home then rest a while had a shower then jen came to fetch mi go back.. then we had mahjong with kat jie's auntie and mom... then we went down to Fisherman for countdown.. haah.. it was a quiet session.. then cal darling and found that she was oso in pasir ris Downtown East.. hahha and she is coming over to blue hut.. hahah

And i wanted to go over to get the table first but she not sure if she is going to stay cos wif her bro.. so i went back to the chalet.. and the moment we continue the game.. darling call and say is reach lioa.. and manage to get a small table.. hahah ... but i was already playing mahjong.. so din join her.. hahha .. but she did stop by to pass mi the presents.. hahah...

By the time we slept that nite is oso 5 plus.. i cannot tahan lioa.. lie in bed and knocked out.. tooo tired..

Happy New Year everyone!!!.. may your wishes for the year come true and have a better year ahead!!..

Kathryn And Wayne ROM - 30/12/06

Finally KAt Jie is getting married... she is wanted by Mr Wong Shi Ming Wayne.. my jie fu.. haha. He ahs proposed to her sooo many times but no flowers or no ring so got rejected.. so finally so he did wat jie wanted and got her for life.. ahaha ... issit tat nice..

They got to noe each other at DBL O, Roy's friend.. hmmm.. despite the impresion (player (in looks), wood block(dunno how to sweet toke) he give, he is a nice guy.. haha .. veri sweet, gentle fellow.. he manage to mellow the fierce and fiery Kat.. tats a veri good thing.. hahah .. think he is the onli one tat manage to tame her ... they look good together.. *Lang Chai Nu Mao*.. *Gong Zhu Yu Wong Zi*.. haha ..

Mi and Sweetie got there at abt 4 plus and they are still setting up the place.. tying the balloons around the garden and Kat was busy doin her make up in the room.. and jie fu's sis brought the polycarbonate and they were trying veri hard to arrange the names but run out of ideas.. wif veri limited resources.. finally we came up wif this rasberry and white chocolate cheesecake.. hehhe.. hahah .. and the table arrangement was my master piece.. haha.. The final look was pretty romantic and cosy and she seems veri surprise wif the decor and it was better than wat she have imagine it to be.. hahah ... see dun expect so much and u will get surprises.. heheh ... issit tat good

We managed to complete everything before the guest comes in and found a way to put up the board.. haha.. and secure it tightly.. hahha ...

At abt 6pm.. the solemnisor came and the couple was excited and kinda of panic.. haha.. we juz standby and withness their best moments.. hehe.. they had the vows in chinese.. so funnie.. kat stammer and it sound weird.. hahah ... and finally they exchange their rings and kisses .. hhahah..

That marks the start of their Happy life together ... Congrats Mr And Mrs Wong ShiMing.. haha.. be blissful and happy always.. faster ans gov call.. for baby..

Christmas Lunch At Pungool Field

Aiyo.. feel like killing sweetie.. she cannot sleep even after such a tiring nite.. we actually woke up at 7.30 to gossip.. as usual lar.. i cannot rem wat happen the nite before..hahah .. she woke mi up and we started recalling wat happen and i realise that i was quite noisy but it was fun..haha.. i was feeling terrible.. had bad headache.. afte sooo many times of drinking over the limit.. tis is the 1st time i am feeling tat bad... i think if we do not have any program yest, we will be in bed the whole day.. hahha... I still feel like puking after i throw up so much the nite before.. haha.. no matter how terrible i feel oso cannot let ma noe.. hahah or else she will hit the roof har and grounded .. hahah... so have to tahan.. hehe.. after breakfast, started grilling the chicken wings and had a shower, after the shower was feeling much better but was stil veri tired.. hahah.

Went over to Kueh gu house for lunch.. we had tonnes of food.. yummi.. spaggetti, salad, kueh patti, turkey, ham, chicken wings, sakae sushi, german sauceages(chicken, pork and beef),satay, been hoon, mee siam, 2 log cakes, ice cream, agar agar, cherries and strawberries. We started eating at 1 plus till 9pm still trying veri hard to clear the food.. its tat bad.. hahha ... and we even had to pack home.. hahah ... veri fruitful christmas with presents and food.. hahha.... yummi...

Merry christmas everyone, may it be fruitful and wonderful for U... hope you had happy holidays..!!!

Christmas Eve 2006

haha.. Woke up at 10 plus still feeling tired.. hahah ... has my breakfast, laze around in the house the whole day while my parents prepared for their xmas eve BBQ dinner at Aunty Yumei house. Its raining the whole day, from heavy down pour to light drizzle.. haiz... dampen my spirits.. hahah .. And didi har.. sick again..

Actually planning to meet him tonite to party, then he was like veri crowded and raining so dun wan to come out.. haha .. darling is already our partying wif her friends and daddy is already drinking out there as early as 8pm.. while i am at home wif sweetie deciding if we should still go party.. hahah ... either we go out in the wet weather or stay home and spend christmas alone... hmmm.. finally we decided to go down with Christer.. hahha .. she was home too..hmmm.. so we went down O Bar.. seeems like the ppl there kinda of miz us.. hahah.. went we went in it was quite empty.. hmmm.. on a christmas eve nite onli 1 hr to midnite.. haha ...

Darling and daddy is suppose to come down n join mi.. but one got super high, the other still clearing drinks at Clark Quay.. haiz... hahah... christer was sick and she was waiting for her other date (Jonathon).. hahah.. we ahd a few rounds of 5,10 before she excitedly go out and bring her friend in, the crowd started comming in abt 15mins to midnite.. so it was quite okie.. and we made friends with the next group of gals.. haha .. kinda of crazy and noisy like us.. hahha.. as usualy lar, even if we dun fish, ppl are oso fishing, waiting for the fish to get the bait.. hahah ... so we juz enjoy ourselves dancing, drinking and playing around.. hahha... i got pretty high quite fast.. and i was down suddenly.. haha... as usual alr.. merlion again at the same place.. hahah.. but tis time is really bad, i was soo uncomfortable, puke like hell.. i almost feel like dying.. hahha .. how i wish sweetie could juz knock mi out.. hahah... but i still make my way home.. and sweetie stayed over.. Thanks sweetie for being there...Muackz...

I had a veri enjoyable christmas... Thanks ...

Christmas Dinner - 23th Dec 2006

After a super heavy dinner last nite, I had my next christmas gathering today with dare, jing zi, Siew Chen and Sweetie. We will be having KTV at 2pm at paradiz Centre.. Mi and sweetie wanted to go down NUM to get our bikins at 50% off but the rain spoil our plans.. It started to rain veri heavily, and i need to help my ma wif the chickens wings .. so cannot go out earlier.. haiz.. wat a waste.. haha.. I have yet to get present for my dad.. hmm.. hopefuly tis two days can go get lar.. heheh ..



We started singing at 2pm till 7pm.. 5 HOURS... i was feeling soo tired, not much mood to sing.. so jus sit there and stoned lar.. it was kinda of boring lar .. hahah .. after that we went for dinner at Giraffe opps PS.. I loved the place, the decor is beautiful, its above the water fountain, with lots of coloured bottles, glass, and lights.. its veri colourful... haha ..they serve fusion food.. kind of east meet west.. haha ... we sat there and gossip and exchange presents but mine is wif Lilian so i have no presents .. sob .. sob...





Then proceed to Dream Bar(ying's workplace) for drinks and KTV again... haha.. We had pool, beer, 5,10 and card games.. so by the time we finish, i was super tired and slightly high.. hahah .. slept in the cab.. got home at 2 plus, bath and touch my bed.. into dreamland i go.. hahah ...

Company Dinner @ Grand Copthorn WaterFront

Its the time of the year again... To feast after a years of hard work, to reward us .. ahahah... it was hard deciding where to eat cos emotional feak is sooo fussy.. if he dun like later he face black again.. spoil everyones appettie.. hahah... we finally decided on the buffet at Grand Copthorn.. *my pick.. hehe... Emotional freak couldnt join us cos he was sick.. down with a super bad flu, bad throat, bad cough and flu..

We went there after work.. the place was decor in blue.. veri beautiful.. with cotton snow, deers, lookalike gingerbread house.. it was not veri pack but has a great ambience.. quiet and the service is super attentive.. every eye contact they can find, will assume u need something.. hahah ...

I have my sashimi (salmon, tuna and i think is red snapper) veri good, big piece and super fresh, sushi, fresh oysters(fresh, big and juicy)..yummi, beef liver with Cranberry sauce, roast beef, BBQ prawns, sotong, sting ray, stuffed turkey, honey baked ham with pineapple sauce, tomato soup, lotus with pork ribs soup, escargots in butter and herbs, fried noodles, cod fish, chicken, duck, chocolate foudne with mashmallow and strawberries, chocolate brownie, nonya kueh, and some strawberry or rashberry with milk mixture (sweet and sour).. super good.. i miss it the most .. i wan more.. hahah ... It was the best buffet i had so far.. we sat there from 7pm till 10.20pm.. haha ... i was sooo full tat not a single drop of water could enter my throat.. heheh ...

I think lesser pressure, can eat more and enjoy better.. heheh ... had better digestion too... hmmm.. tats bad har ... I hope everyone had a good dinner... *merry Christmas* ....

Xmas Shopping

Finally did my xmas shopping yest... have no idea wat to get... make a trip down to Tampines mall to look for ideas.. hahha ... bought 3 pairs of earrings, 3 tops, 1 jellwery set and a few bars of chocolates.. hahha ... and all this weight a ton.. the whole place is filled with ppl... cannot believed it, soooo packed. I bought my hair dye... mystic Black.. which is suppose to have tinge of purple... but when i dye it look totally black on mi.. hmmm.. so nw i loook guai and innocent.. like a school gal.. hahah ... opps... hopefully after the next few washes.. the colour will appear.. haha.... Darling.. I finally got ur present too.. hahah ...

Anna Sui

Weeee..... My 1st set of Anna Sui products.... thanks Lilian.. or else i wun have it.. hahha .... it was beautiful.. the powder is veri fine, all their products smell of rose water.... hehhe .... the casing and boxes are pretty... I have this beautiful foundation, loose powder, 2 lipsticks and a glitter nail polish for xmas.. so hope i will have a pretty pretty xmas party.. hehhe ....

14 days to CHRISTMAS

Counting down to christmas... 14 Days left... its getting nearer but i still dun feel the christmas mood... haha.. even no mood for shopping for presents or clothes.. hmmm... Onli feel like staying home to slack.. hahha ... the decor or songs dun tingle the mood.. hahha ... soooo sad.. my fav festive of the year but i dun seem to enjoy it this yr.. hopefully will start feeling the mood soon or else, no presents tis yr.. hahha ...

Look pretty or MATURE !!!

Friday took 2 hrs off to go do my hsir since emotional freak not here.. hahha ... actually wan to cut onli but did tot of perming cos have straight hair for 25 years lioa..kinda of boring.. so tot of meeting sweetie to go for wake after that... haha .. But when reach there, haha .. AUnty Linda and mi think of the same.. PERM... hahha .. i had my first ceramic perm..haha..

I sat there for like 4 hrs to become a doll... I even had to cancel my appt wif sweetie lor .. cannot go to the wake.. hahha ... opps.. the after efect was good cos never c myself in curls before.. look so diff.. hahah ... i like it but veri ma fan.. need to style every morn or else will look like a lion.. hahha ... so which is better curls or straight? or look auntie?? hmmm... my stupod collegue say i look old.. soooo sad...







Current Look ?

Old Look?

New look old House

haha... We finally manage to give Dowager's house a new look, the walls are sooo old.. all the paint are already dropping off.. dull and old.. and we finally convinced her to have it done, it has been 10 years since we last painted it.. Imgaine how many of us was there, mi & my parents; my cousins; my auntie and 4 workers so there was like 13 of us there.. hahah .. in a small 2 room 1 hall flat.. hahah ... with all the furniture out of positions.. hahha ... The ceiling is white, walls r barely pink and door is lily white.. hahha ... veri light pink so the whole house looks super bright.. and we change the colour of the room light to warm white.. hmm.. looks more cosy.. hahha ...

Cleaning the house, my aunt still has shoes, clothes and books in the house, so we make her clear then.. so long already been there for a long time, married out lioa still dun wan to clear.. aiyo.. there is like more than 10 pairs lor (old and mouldy) .. and all she cannot wear lioa .. hhehe.. oso dunno y.. all ended up all throw or give away.. haha.. Finally dowager house is cleaner and brighter.. Shall we have xmas party there tis yr?